Teenager
I will forever love the doctor who said this to me on the day of your birth:
“She’s a titch, but she’s perfect.”
All four pounds, fourteen ounces of you.
My last miracle.
My baby girl.
Who looks like this:
So can you forgive me for still seeing you like this?
And allow me to say (without exaggeration) that each day since your birth you’ve made me
smile.
Not just with my lips and eyes, but with my heart.
Therefore my wish for you today (and every other day for the rest of your life)
…is JOY.
Because my love (my Kaker Baker Candlestick Maker), you make me complete.
As long as I have you, no one can steal my sunshine.
And if I could, my girl, I’d give you every ray of mine.
This song played hourly the summer Karly was born and I haven’t stopped loving it since…
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30 Comments to Teenager
by Lori Dyan
On July 14, 2012 at 9:40 am
This is beautiful and makes me appreciate MY 4-year-old a little more – although she just called her brother a mofo – knowing that she’ll also be a teenager one day. I aspire to be like you…
by tracy@sellabitmum
On July 14, 2012 at 9:44 am
Happy Birthday to your sweet girl. A teenager! That is completely awesome. xoxoxoxoxoxo
by heidi
On July 14, 2012 at 9:55 am
This is beautiful, Julie. And so is your daughter.
Annie turned 9 this month and I find myself thinking of her as a 2 year old, a 3 year old and how much she’s changed, but the same…you know?
Happy Birthday to your gorgeous girl.
by Greta
On July 14, 2012 at 10:27 am
Oh my goodness. Happy birthday to your girl! (I remember that summer and loved that song)
by Robin Bielman
On July 14, 2012 at 10:36 am
Welcome to the world of two teenagers.
Your daughter is darling and she is very lucky to have you!! Happy weekend!
by Cheryl @ Mommypants
On July 14, 2012 at 10:40 am
Happy birthday!! And may i say i’m eternally grateful you are experiencing the teenage years before me, so you can hold my hand when my kids enter those “golden” years? xoxo
by Alexandra
On July 14, 2012 at 11:22 am
I KNOW.
YOU are so right.
Why I love Shrek II, it played non stop when my Auggie doggie was born.
How funny, we think the same way.
How funny…
by DarleneMAM
On July 14, 2012 at 11:46 am
Niiiice. Very nice tribute to the teen!
Regards,
DarleneMAM
by maybaby
On July 14, 2012 at 12:05 pm
Congratulations to you Teenager Mom! If I lived closer to you I would deliver a bottle of wine to celebrate. Deep breath and a big hug!
by Janie Fox
On July 14, 2012 at 1:15 pm
You made me cry. Happy Birthday to your Karly! She’s beautiful just like her momma!
by Mel
On July 14, 2012 at 1:16 pm
Beautiful!
by Renee Schuls Jacobson
On July 14, 2012 at 3:04 pm
Tech will turn in August. He stopped breathing 5 times. We are so lucky to have him.
Will I feel this way in a month?
When he comes home all sleepy and hungry and demand-ishy?
Congrats to you for having such great kids.
by Kari Marie
On July 14, 2012 at 4:15 pm
Beautiful girl. Beautiful words from her mom.
by Alison
On July 14, 2012 at 6:14 pm
Happy Birthday, Karly!!
Julie, mother of two teens? I can hardly believe it, you don’t look a day over 28.
by Katie
On July 14, 2012 at 7:23 pm
LEN! I almost forgot about that song!
Happy birthday to a girl I can only assume is a gorgeous person given that your mom is one of the most beautiful people I know.
by Cameron
On July 15, 2012 at 5:52 am
Oh Julie. I love your letters, but you must be aware that Steal My Sunshine simply CANNOT be a teenage number of years old.
by Julie
On July 15, 2012 at 9:10 am
Hard to believe how time flies, right Cam? July of 1999.
Len’s one hit wonder.
And forever one of my favorite songs because of the timing…
XO
by Pamela
On July 15, 2012 at 12:36 pm
Beautiful post, Julie.
by Bridget
On July 15, 2012 at 7:58 pm
Happy Birthday!
No matter how many candles they have on the cake, they’re always our sweet babies.
Even when our saying so embarrasses them;)
by Jack@TheJackB
On July 16, 2012 at 5:34 pm
Happy Birthday.
My oldest turns 12 in December. I think he grew two feet taller this summer, but what really kills me is his face.
The baby face is quickly disappearing and now I see this preteen premonition of the future.
by Pop
On July 17, 2012 at 7:28 am
Don’t you just love the internet?! I remember growing up and being HORRIFIED when my mom would take out the family photo album, especially if the guests brought over a girl that was my age. But now? With technology, we don’t need to wait to have guests over to embarrass our kids.
But seriously, what a marvelous post. It’s a reminder that I need to get started on that deadly martial art training before D1 becomes a teen.
by Lady Jennie
On July 19, 2012 at 6:48 am
What is a titch???????
That’s a risqué word to use to a new mom. At least it would be for me who has no idea what it means.
Your girl is gorgeous, just like you.
by Jamie
On July 19, 2012 at 12:42 pm
Moms and their girls make me teary. Even when they act like teenage girls. XO
by Jessica
On July 19, 2012 at 1:49 pm
Happy birthday to your daughter. May she always bless your life with smiles.
by Nina
On July 20, 2012 at 12:47 pm
Beautiful! And happy birthday to your sweet girl.
by Jessica
On July 20, 2012 at 7:44 pm
Oh so perfect and I don’t have to tell you this but she LOOKS like a teenager. Happy Birth Day to both of you!
by Terri Sonoda
On July 22, 2012 at 3:21 pm
So beautiful. I have tears because I know that kind of love. Thank goodness!
by Jessica
On July 23, 2012 at 12:04 pm
This is such a beautiful tribute. So beautiful.
by Di
On August 2, 2012 at 9:35 am
KK brings joy to all of us…every day, every way! XXXOOO
by Stasha
On August 12, 2012 at 11:07 am
What a lovely poet. So it is true when they say they grow up way too fast ha?
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